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« I'm going to feel a surge of rage inside me, and if I want to do it, I can't stand anyone stopping me. »
Louise Aubéry on her strong will and reaction to being prevented from doing something.
« My mother always told me, "Your tongue is your enemy." »
Louise Aubéry's mother's advice reflecting societal pressure on women to be quiet.
« I don't want passion anymore. I want calm, something very healthy. »
Louise Aubéry expressing her current relationship desires for stability over intense passion.
« I think mental health is not a question that requires a lot of time. »
Louise Aubéry reflecting on the complexity and time commitment of mental health recovery.
« The only room for maneuver that we have, it's on us. »
Louise Aubéry on focusing on self-control and internal change rather than external factors.
Resources mentioned in the video
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Louise Aubéry
Guest on the podcast, discussing personal experiences and mental health.
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Inpower Podcast
The podcast hosting the interview, focused on empowering ideas.
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EMDR therapy
Mentioned as a therapy technique for processing traumatic events.
Glossary
Dissociation
A psychological defense mechanism, often developed by victims of trauma, to survive overwhelming experiences by mentally detaching from reality.
Mental Hygiene
Practices and habits aimed at maintaining good mental health, similar to physical hygiene for the body.
Self-esteem
Confidence in one's own worth or abilities; self-respect. The discussion highlights the difficulty in answering questions related to self-impressed moments when self-esteem is low.
Toxic Relationship
A relationship characterized by unhealthy dynamics, conflict, and emotional distress, which the speaker now wishes to avoid.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Dissociation is a psychological protection mechanism where individuals detach from overwhelming experiences, often physical or sexual violence, to survive. It can lead to feeling less or analyzing situations to cope rather than feeling emotions directly.
She believes she has blocked emotions early on as a survival mechanism due to past trauma and judgment. While she can intellectually understand joy, feeling it physically or in the present moment is a challenge she is working on in therapy.
She desires a stable, healthy, and reassuring relationship, moving away from the intensity and potential toxicity of past passionate relationships that involved constant arguments or emotional turmoil.
She has decided to block negative comments and insults to protect her mental health and creative process, likening it to removing disruptive individuals from a personal space like an art gallery.
